How to Be a Love Goddess

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Have you ever wanted to be considered a love goddess? A damsel in distress? A femme fatale? A vixen? A vamp? Or just a woman who simply always gets what guys she wants? Well, with a bit of beauty, lust, confidence, charm and perhaps good luck, you can achieve all this.

Steps

Start with yourself. If you're not confident enough, look in the mirror and think of what would you like to change about your appearance in order to make yourself feel happier. Wash your hair and get the volume, put on some make up and pick a nice perfume.
If there's anything you love about yourself, such as pretty eyes, healthy, long hair, nice legs, curves or seductive full lips -- emphasize it! Play up your fabulousness!

Now that you have built up your confidence, wear a flattering outfit, but don't overdo it or you will appear slutty. Pick a bar, take a look around and maybe you will find a guy who suits your purpose.
Yes, you have to "take charge" and be a little bit aggressive. Imagine going to McDonald's and ordering a cheeseburger. How big is the chance for you to get it? I'd say about 100% if they're accidentally not running out of inventory which is not really possible. It's exactly the same with this guy. Tell yourself it is most likely you will get him tonight.
It may be quite hard in the beginning but try to keep this attitude in your mind.

Use body language to signal your attraction. Eye contact, a wink, a knowing smile. If he doesn't budge, walk over to him - keeping eye contact if possible. Just the walk over shows you're interested - you don't need to say a word. Trust me, it's fun and in case he's not interested in you or has a girlfriend or whatever on earth, at least he will be pleased that someone flattered him.
Develop some sort of special "charm" about you. For example:

So begins the divorce ruling about how much Ex-Beatle Paul McCartney has to pay to his wife Heather Mills. The full ruling was published by the British site News of the World and can be found as pdf file at
Full Court Ruling

That means doubtless that in her opinion Paul should pay more. We are wondering what Frenchy's visitors think. Is Heather right? Is Paul rich enough to pay more and would it be only fair? Or are you agreeing to the court ruling?

Why good girls love bad boys!
By Lisa Daily

Doesn’t make any sense, does it? We’ve all done it at one time or another. We whine to our friends about the lack of nice available guys, and then, when given the choice between a nice, sweet (safe)(boring) guy and a bad boy who makes our toes curl, we invariably go for the toe-curler. The heartbreak-waiting-to-happen.

I recently received a letter from a sweet guy who wrote,

"I've been looking for some insights to what women are looking for, because from my perspective, they often go for that which they complain about most!

Women don't say "Oh, he's a kind, honest, nice and loyal type of guy from a good family...he attends church and that really turns me on." Women say things like: "Hes a Bad Boy" .."He's sexy"... "There's chemistry between us"..."I really feel something for him" and he is such a deliciously "Bad Boy". He instantly makes me feel sexy, etc.

Got any advice for us men?" Baby, you hit the nail nice right on the head.

Nearly all women go through some period in their lives when they’re swept up by a bad boy. The Navy Seal with the amazing bod and the mental prowess of a fruit plate. The Harley guy with mean beard stubble and an attitude to match. The Josh Hartnett look-alike who makes us feel like the center of the universe, and then puts the moves on our roommate the minute we leave for the ladies room. We can see these guys coming a mile away,

Part. of us actually like to believe we can be the one girl to turn this wild man into a pussycat. Part of us just like that down-to-our-toes thrill, the excitement of something we KNOW is bad for us. (Like chocolate cheesecake, and Jimmy Choo shoes..) Some of us are just gluttons for misery. And unlike good boys, bad boys make us feel sexy.

There’s good news and bad news for all you nice guys out there. Your day will come. It just won't be today.Why?

A few women actually grow out of the bad-boy phase once we hit our late twenties. Our girlfriends start to couple off, and we start wondering if we used up our nice guy quota in college when we were still torturing men for sport. That’s where you come in, Mr. Sweet Guy. Because you’re the guy we really want for the long haul..

Here’s my advice for all the nice guys:

Remember what we were wearing on our first date. Give romantic gifts on birthdays and anniversaries (and remember flower-mandatory holidays such as Valentine’s Day.) Get what we’re all about. Let us know what you’re all about. Kill any bugs that sneak into the kitchen. Give us your coat when it gets chilly outside. And remember there’s a fine line between being a nice guy and being a doormat - After all, you don’t want to be a good boy in love with a bad girl.

A WHITE WOMAN EXPLAINS WHY SHE PREFERS BLACK MEN
“How many white men can treat a woman like a lady and ravish her too?”
By Susan Crain Bakos

Black skin is thick and lush, sensuous to the touch, like satin and velvet made flesh. There's only one patch of skin on a white man's body that remotely compares to nearly every inch of a black man's skin.  The first time I caressed black skin, it felt like a luxury I shouldn't be able to afford. I craved it more strongly than Carrie Bradshaw craved Manolo Blahnik shoes. That phrase, "Once you go black, you never go back" is all about the feeling of the skin.

And I had the socially acceptable explanation for my craving. I used that paucity-of-available-white-partners rationale to explain my relationships with black men for several years. A white woman past forty is often passed over by her white-male contemporaries. She goes younger or ethnic or foreign-born or down the socioeconomic scale or darker or she spends lonely nights at home with her cats. Black men are happy to get the babe they couldn't have when she was twentysomething and fertile. The laws of the marketplace do prevail. It's not me, it's them—them being the white guys who weren't after me anymore, or so I claimed.

That's a lie. The truth is, I attract about the same percentage of available white men my age (and far younger!) now as I did when I was thirty—and that's not including the unavailable white men who want to play around anyway.

Enough white men want me that I was hardly facing enforced celibacy, but I don't want them.

Cheating boyfriends leave many signs and with a little patience, and by giving him lots of time and space to cheat, you can catch your cheating boyfriend without having to hire a costly private investigator. We have compiled a list of the top 5 signs of a cheating boyfriend so you can tell whether or not your boyfriend is cheating. Remember to pay attention to details and follow your gut instinct. In addition, if you and your boyfriend haven’t clearly discussed whether the two of you are both monogamous in your relationship, don’t assume he has just “automatically” decided to be faithful to only you. Maybe in your cheating boyfriend’s mind, your relationship isn’t serious enough for him to consider being faithful yet. Make sure you are both clear on where you stand regarding fidelity in your relationship.

1. Lack of intimacy. This doesn’t always have to be in the form of sex. It can be a decline of touching, cuddling, holding hands or kissing.

2. He cheated on his old girlfriends. If you can talk to some of his old girlfriends, by all means, do it. However, make sure to ask his ex-girlfriends in a kind and calm manner so they do not become defensive. A cheating boyfriend will usually repeat their behavior with their next girlfriend.